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writes:Hey everybody! I really hope you can help me. I'm 9 months pregnant for my x boyfriend of 12 years who left me as soon as he found out I was pregnant. At 6 months pregnant I went to see him and we ended up sleeping together, after that he stopped returning my calls and has completely ignored me and does not reply to texts I've sent him. I just can't understand it and I'm hurting so much, our baby is due in 2 weeks and he does'nt care. I have not even told his Mother that I am pregnant, he has never in all the 12years we have been together introduced me to her, I know where she lives and I was wondering if I should go round there and let her know the situation but at the same time I don't think I could deal with any rejection or negativity from her after going through this pregnancy alone so have not been round to tell her. I don't know her either so i kind of think whats the point... A part of me just wants to allow him to continue ignoring me and just let go and leave him alone to get on with his life and me with mine as he has shown me he does'nt care, then another part of me is so angry he could do this to me and his child. I have done an awful lot for him, i feel used and abused. I keep having dreams about him, I'm upset with myself for missing him and still loving him after the way he has treated me. I want to be strong, I don't want to be sad when I should be looking forwards to the birth of my baby. What do you guys think is best I do?
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reader, 1sincere1 +, writes (17 September 2010):
1sincere1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers. I do need to move on and forget about him. I can not bare to be rejected again. It does hurt and I really hope time will heal the pain.
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reader, lerato29  +, writes (16 September 2010):
 i am sorry 2 hear what u r going through but to b honest u deserve better,i know it hurts especially when u r pregnant but u have to be strong for the baby.love your prescious baby despite what yo x is doing 2 u.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Your ex no longer matters..He has no respect for you and has never introduce you to his mother? Apparently he thought you weren't good enough to bring home to mom. Wrong! You have so much self worth than you are giving yourself. Going to his mother's house will not benefit this situation it will only open a can of worms. You've been rejected don't go back for seconds. Worry about this baby, that is the only person who is your number one concern. The only thing left that you need from this deadbeat dad is child support. If he won't give it to you I suggest you take him to court, he'll pay up then. In the long run he will pay for walking out on you and his child.
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