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anonymous
writes: WOAH Ok a couple of days ago my ex declared his undying love for me, and today he's telling me how beautiful the girl he's now seeing is. What's he playing at?
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reader, yoyouyont +, writes (14 May 2006):
okay you can tell from these perspectives that women as recievers of this behaviour are suspect and men ussually use it to attract attention. As a man it sounds like he is trying to interest you. to discern this simply ask him if he wants a relationship with you. His answer(the way its phrased and spoken-go on your intuition here) should tell you wether he wants it on the side or is really in love with you. Dont worry about feeling embarrassed, if he makes you feel small ( as a defense) simply remind him of his profound comments and state that all you were after was some sort of sense.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (14 May 2006):
 Sometimes men (and women) say things to make us jealous...by saying she is beautiful, he is trying to make himself look better...she is his trophy, and wow look how successful I must be to have such a lady. I must be fab..and worthy of your attention too. It is just a trick of his to get your attention (and it worked didn't it). He shouldnt be declaring love to you with a girlfriend around, and remember if you were in a relationship with him it wouldn't be nice wondering if he was off telling other ladies he loved them so beware, he sounds a nightmare!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): the guy is obviously still in love with you! he's only put a pretty girl on his elbow to make you jealous, and he's obviously too proud/shy to try and repair things with you.
what he's doing is something i do all to often, it doesn't work and it makes me feel like a nothing. but lots of us guys do it...
good luck ;)
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (14 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
exes can send many mixed signals to most of us "used to be g/fs" but my best guess is he wants you as standby. Incase this God's Gift to Men she-devil relationship doesn't work out. If he had un-dying love for you, he would break up with this pretty girl and get back with you. If he does it again (declare his un-dying love for you) just tell him straight that he should be doing that to his current lady, not his ex.
You Can Do Better, I know you can and I've not even met you!
Good Luck, All The Best and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
xxx
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