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My ex says he wants to come back, but his actions suggest something else...

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Question - (10 October 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

Me and my X have 2 children together. When my second child was 6 months we split up.

We had an arguement and he said he was out of here so I locked the door behind him and now he's living with someone else. He says that if I had allowed him back in that night he would still be here. He was not very responsible with money, with his appearence, with me or with our kids. Now he takes care of her and her family but still says he loves me and we will be back together.

He calls me every day but I don't know if he's just telling me things to shut me up or what. We still fuss on the phone because he will not do anything that even suggest we'll be together in front of the new woman. What do I do? Do I keep my mouth shut and wait or tell him to grab his balls and make a decision? Someone please repond.

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A female reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (11 October 2005):

These are his own kids!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2005):

hmm... first off this guy is NOT a REAL MAN sorry but he rather take care of some one elses kids rather than his OWN? do not let him deceive u, actions are the one thing that matter the most but the actions that involve you the one that he claims to love. Now he is stalling to make a decision? don't wait because just maybe you will eait forever. dont anserw his calls, or dont see him make it crystal clear that you can live with out him, and then he will see what he lost due to his stupiduty.

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