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writes:I was at a bar with some male friends I ran into my ex-bf and his friends so I had to say "hi" to him. We don't really contact each other unless we run into each other. We are not that close.After saying "hi" to him, I then danced with my males friends for an hr or so. My friends went to the bar for some drinks. I then went up to my ex by myself and said "hi". The first thing he said (half joking) " your friends must be very keen on you, especially the one with a blue top.. I can tell, I am a guy" and then he started to ask about those guys' name and one particular one for his surname.He teased me (that my male friends are interested in me) and bet my male friends would be very jealous if I dance with him. He thought we should give it a go and check out their reaction. I told him those guys were just my friends but he kept on making fun of me. And he even knew that my friends were waiting for me to go back and sat with them. The bar was quite packed and it seemed he has been observing throughout the night. Not sure what he wants from me, but I left early with my guy friends. I'd like to stay but I thought I was with my friends so I should leave with them.We broke up 1 year ago. It all happened in the wrong timing. Seriously I have no idea why would he said sth like that to me at the bar and the way he reacted. Was he jealous? I am not really sure.. what do you guys think? Thanks for the help
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007): I totally have no idea but I have a huge problem.. I have been freinds with this one guy forever but things got messed up. we are still super tight but he always emails me about how he has a crappy life no freinds and no girlfreind. it kind of made me feel good knowing that I was the only girl in his life. then the guy I was in love with fell apart and I was sad. it made me feel good to know that I wasn't the only one that things were going bad for. then I heard from a group of freinds that he was super popular all the girls loved him and he had millions of freinds. I got really jealous even though I dont like him. when I confronted him about the rumors he got really mad now he's not talking to me. I have no idea how i feel. I think I love one guy but then why do I feel like this about the other??? please help
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 Well most of my friends are boys and I think he(ex) was not happy seeing u with so many nice guys taking care of and watching that u are ok and happy got him jealous, In think he would like to have u back somehow or at least longing for him, If He seriuosly wanted u back he would have to work on the relationship and take care of not allowimg him to let down any nice boy in your gang who could be really interested in a good and nice relationship and that maybe is waiting for the right time to tell u something, take care this ex words sound no good to maybe me he wants nothing but to mess ur head up, (90% possibilities)good uck
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reader, princess_sparkle  +, writes (16 September 2007):
Sure sounds like he was jealous to me. I kind of know what you are going through. I recently became friends again with my ex after two years of not talking, i still love him and he does not know i still love him and i do not know what he feels about me cuz he is sure sending me mixed signals. If your ex boyfriend was really over you, he wouldnt care who you were with. That is just my opinion. I would talk to your ex boyfriend. Ask him straight up if he was jealous. You might resolve some issues. Hope that helped at least a little
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