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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, Recently, my ex broke up with me in May. Yes, he dumped me because he thought I was scary (-_-), and We've been talking for awhile and became friends. Now, Its June, and I came to his house yesterday for help in math. I don't know why but he fell on the floor sleeping and I decided to get a blanket for him and I felt sleepy so I slept on the floor as well. Not so close to him though. We were talking about random things and all of a sudden he got closer to me and ended up kissing my forearm. He eventually got on top of me and we both stared at each other. Sure, I still have feelings for him, but I didn't expect it to be like this. He kissed me on the lips! Then he tongued me. A few moments later I asked if he still liked me or not. He said "Kinda" and he said he felt like crying. We ended up kissing each other for several hours. It felt weird because hes my ex. Hes the one who broke up with me. Even though he kissed me, it doesn't mean we're together again. So, I'm very confused, and all I did today was think about what happened yesterday. I do love him still even after breaking up with me. Even though he wrote a letter about breaking up, saying that I was too clingy, and scary...he kissed me.I don't know what to do right now. Does he still like me after breaking up with me? Should I call him and talk about it? I really don't know what to say to him. I had another weird feeling that he wanted to kiss me for the hell of it, but thats me thinking on the negative side. Its just I don't know if he really loves me or not.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Sounds to me like he's using you, hun.
I've been here before, it seems that he's just seeing how far he can go with you. If he did like you surely he would have said "Yeah, I like you a lot... how would you feel if we went out again?" or something?
It sounds like he wants his cake and will eat it if you hand it to him.
Trust your instincts and keep away from him because your feelings will grow for him and he will throw you back down off your cloud if he finds someone knew.
Take care xx
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