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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi My ex girlfriend ended our relationship after a couple of years - Im sure it was for someone else - sure enough a few days later she was. Since then every 3 months or so she would contact me by email and be all hi how are you - but would just disappear when ever we got into a conversation. I even met her once and she was very distant and didnt want to talk. I told her acouple of times not to contact me but she always did after a while - recently I told her we couldnt be friends not to contact me - then when she contacted me again I ignored her - this time she asked to meet up - I did at the end she said dont be a stranger - what does she mean why does she do this
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reader, mark89  +, writes (15 January 2011):
this means she wants to be friend, dont forget about her maybe she wants to be with you again. talk
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (15 January 2011):
She's keeping her options open. She most likely views men as inventory. You're a part of her inventory in her eyes. And, she doesn't want her inventory to be reduced. Hence, the "keep in touch." Translation: "stay in my life ... on the periphery...until I actually need to spend time with you while I look around."
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 I guess you where a big part of her life for a few years and she would like to keep in contact with you as a friend. Am sure she doesnt mean to string you along am sure she just wants to contact you every now and then to see how your life is going. When she said dont be a stranger she meant not to fall out of contact with her. But dont take this as a sign she still has feelings for you. Its more likely that she just wants to keep in contact and thinks of you as a friend. If you can accept this then good but if you cant then you need to just ignore all contact she tries to make with you and finally she will stop contacting you.
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