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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ok, so i was dating this wonderful guy for about 3 and a half months. i lost my virginity to him after we were only dating for a week. i knew that it was too soon and that people would think i was stupid for it. but i couldn't see myself regretting it. well, then i found out that he was kind of into guys. and i have no problem with bisexuals, or gay people...but i just can't handle dating a guy who wants another guy. and one of my friends "a guy" i have been in love with for a long time, even while dating the other guy. so when i broke up with my boyfriend, my grandfather invited the new guy "zack" to come over for the day. while "zack" was over we were watching a movie called dinosaur and he pulls me into him, and starts rubbing my hair and putting it out of my face and behind my ears. i loved it. and then things started to explode inside me. i had no idea what was happening anymore. we started to kiss and everything went from there..so we are now dating. but all of a sudden my ex-bf is trying to talk to me again, and its been almost a month since we broke up. but he refuses to even talk to me with my new bf around. my bf thinks that maybe hes trying to get me back, because he's trying to hang out with me after school and stuff...i just don't know if i should try to be friends again, or if i should tell him that i can't handle being friends with him after everything we went through..it was a short relationship but it was filled with a lot of meaning. but i'm happier now, with my new bf than i've ever been..
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 March 2011):
 He is trying to get you back, and you shouldn't go there. If you're happy with your current boyfriend, then cut the ex out of your life. He isn't interested in being just friends, if he was, he'd have no problem talking to you with your BF around.
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