A
female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why would he be so mean to me..did I do anything wrong:(?My ex bf and I broke up 6months ago, but he's been coming back to me off and on giving me mix messages and leading me on.I went to see him the other day, but he invited his friend. I thought it was just us too.He ignored me whiles I was there he didn't noticed how nice I looked and smelt but his friend did. He didn't pay me no attention and when I was leaving he asked to drop me to the bus stop with his friend. I said no, but I thought he'd insist like always but he didn't. and started tickling me ( I got mad and told him to stop) finally he noticed me when I was going. I emailed him telling him I felt that day. He said he noticed I've got a split personality and he can't love me again.Am so numb to it all. The email was so mean and horrible. I couldn't even cry, am all cried out.I was angry cos he didn't pay me no attention then starts tickling me when am leaving wtf and doesn't even walk me to the bus stop
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2011):
 You cannot blame him for not walking you to the bus stop, he offered and you refused. Therefore if you really wanted him to walk you to the bus stop you should have smiled and said yes. But you didn't so you cannot blame him for this.
As for him not showing you any attention, well maybe it is just possible that he wants to get over you, therefore he is pretending to not care. You are not a couple any more so I guess you need to accept that and realise that he probably won't show you as much attention any more.
It sounds to me like he is a bit confused and doesn't know what he wants. But he has said it clearly that he cannot love you again for whatever reason. Therefore I think that is a big red light for you now to accept that it is over and there is no going back. Stop hanging around with him and cut all contact so that you can give yourself time to heal and get over him. Good Luck.
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