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writes:Hi, I broke up with my bf about a year and a half ago but we continued to talk alot and it felt for a long time that we were going to get back together but i was scared to tell him i still wanted him and i thought maybe he felt the same way, we would text constantly and he would suggest his feelings for me.As this was going on we were both with other people but nothing ever stuck (because for me I was still in love with my ex.Anyway I decided to stop contact with him in november last year because it was going nowhere and i was so frustrated, i didnt tell him this i just didnt text him back. We havent been talking since and I asked my friends to not tell me any gossip about him and other girls as it would be too painful.As time went by I kinda stopped thinking about him and I have started seeing a guy who lives far away but i don't know if I really like him. I recently learned that my ex is now going out with a new girl and it killed me to hear it. I thought I was over it but now all my feelings have come rushing back, I have heard that he has cheated on this girl a number of times with other girls, and when I saw him, he just stared at me like he missed me too. I can't stand the thought of him being in love with someone else, it kills me. If he cheats on this girl then does he really care? Is it possible for someone to be in a relationship with someone and still care about someone else? Im also confused about my new guy, I don't know how I feel about him, I really want my ex to want me back again, his new gf is not pretty or anything,im 21.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! Any other advice from anyone else?? Opinions would be greatly appreciated
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reader, Lyshler  +, writes (14 April 2009):
I don't think that your boyfreind loves you and if you not sure about the new b/f please take time to think and do the right thing.
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