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*overnotafighter
writes:My friend is currently going out with an ex of mine.They have been goin out since march and im still slightly in love with him but im happy that him and my friend have a good relationship and are happy with each other. When we broke up and it got a bit messy between as he cut off all contact with me, he wouldnt even be friends he just point blanky ignored me everytime we met on the street or a night out.Its really difficult because he is always around with my friend and he doesnt direct any of a conversation towards me, he wont even look at me.Is it strange for me to want to discuss how we ended i feel like i just need closure so that im able to have a conversation with him and not feel awkward, i want to be friends or should i just let him go?
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (20 June 2011):
 why did you break up? You sound like a nice woman and rational... im guessing you didnt cheat on him.. but whatever happened hes really pissed off... why dont yo ask your friend to mediate.. she might not want to get involved.. maybe hes afraid his feelings will come back if he talks to you ...you could just confront him tell him you guys dont have to be enemies..he seems like a jerk to just ignore you but i dont know his side
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2011): I don't think you need closure. There really isn't anything to discuss with him. And such a discussion wouldn't sit well with your friend. How would you like it if your boyfriend had a private conversation with his ex about their relationship?
My daughter's ex did the same thing to her after their break up. As painful as it was she gave him his space and moved on with her life. They too had mutual friends and it took a little over a year before he started speaking to her again.
What you're feeling is normal and it will pass.
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