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writes:Ok, so I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I came to realize that she probably wasn't coming back. I eventually moved on, started living my life. Working, going out, things like that. I'm not really "trying" to find a girlfriend, but I have to admit, that I am feeling lonely without one. Being with friends helps for a bit, but when you're used to having someone talk to you whenever you want or even cuddling or laying next to them, it just doesn't feel right and makes me want to have someone else in my life. At least someone a bit more than a casual friend to talk to.Anyways, me and my ex are still good friends. She told me that if I wanted, she has friends that she can introduce me to or even hook up with. My question is, should I take that offer? I mean, eventually I can find a girlfriend on my own, but like I said, I kinda really want someone right now. Things just aren't the same. My concern is that it's my ex that's hooking me up. For some reason, it makes me feel really weird. Any suggestions or comments?
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reader, Full moon temptress1  + ♥, writes (4 November 2009):
I also tried to get my ex hooked up with someone aswell,not one of my friends though that does sound slightly weird.He was very lonely after our break up and i felt slightly guilty,so i looked in loney heart colums.Eventually he found someone himself and i'm very happy for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): Well Id say go for it. You have nothing to lose. You guys didnt work out and if you are actually over her then how bad. The only one thing Id consider before going for it is how would you feel if she wanted to hook up with one of your firends. It may not happen but if it does, you do need to be okay with it.
Best of luck Id go with it chuck.
Elpigaro
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (4 November 2009):
 It is up to you i guess the fact she is your ex it seems weird to you, but if she is more like a friend to you now then maybe you shouldn't look at it this way.
What is the harm? you get to meet some new girls and if anything comes out of it, well look at it as a bonus.
Gina
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