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female
age
36-40,
*har02
writes:Okay, am ex-boyfriend of mine, who is a virgin, wants me to take his virginity. I wasn't a virgin when we were dating and we fooled around but never all the way. He's always told me that he should have lost it with me. The thing is now, I am not into him like I was. I just got out of another relationship and I'm kinda thinking I want to be on my own for awhile. I don't mind hanging out with the guy, he's cool to talk to. I don't want him to become emotionally attached to me because I'd be his first and I also feel guilty because I'm not into him like he is into me. He also says he couldn't just have sex with me once and let that be it, but what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Securityoutlaw +, writes (13 August 2009):
You should tell him exactly how you feel. Explain to him how you want to just do the "me"thing. He should understand that you don't want to mess up his one and only time of losing his virginity when you feel like your being forced into it because you don't wanna hurt him. However he is a guy and most guys don't think like us females but just try to explain to him and if he is a true friend and he really cares for you he wouldn't try to make you feel like have to help him lose his virginity. I hope it all goes well.
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