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I just want to have sex to get it over with.

Q.   I am jealous of sex because, I have not had sex yet. I am 17 years old and I never had a girlfriend before, or even kissed a girl. I am forced to lie to everyone that I have had sex so I will not be embarrassed of my virginity. I don't want to wait ...

A.   13 August 2009:  I was 22 when I lost my virginity. I went threw the same thing lying to people and telling them that I was not a virgin. I desperately wanted a bf and felt like there was something completely wrong with me. I went out to a bar and started to mess ... (read in full...)

He doesn't trust me after I repeatedly cheated on him

Q.   I've been with this guy for almost 3 years and he's the love of my life. When we were together for about 6 months I cheated on him with two different people. We worked it out between us, but I didn't have much of a life for a while. When I did start ...

A.   13 August 2009: Well, to me it looks like he was understanding after the first two times because it was so early in the relationship and then you had a child together and between having a child and then the time from the last two cheats til the time you informed ... (read in full...)

My ex BF wants me to take his virginity

Q.   Okay, am ex-boyfriend of mine, who is a virgin, wants me to take his virginity. I wasn't a virgin when we were dating and we fooled around but never all the way. He's always told me that he should have lost it with me. The thing is now, I am not ...

A.   13 August 2009: You should tell him exactly how you feel. Explain to him how you want to just do the "me"thing. He should understand that you don't want to mess up his one and only time of losing his virginity when you feel like your being forced into it because ... (read in full...)

My GFs parents abuse her, how can I help?

Q.   My girlfriend gets abused by her parents, a lot. We live a million miles away from each other and there is nothing I can do to help her. I can only tell her things will be okay. and sometimes I don't know if I'm right. How can I help her more? I ...

A.   13 August 2009: If your gf is getting physically abused the only thing you can do is to suggest her to seek help. She can go on her local police departments website and write to them via email and ask them (and if she wants to for the moment she can write to them ... (read in full...)

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