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writes:Its been three months since my break up with my ex and alot of things have happened. Now after talking for some time we decided that we want to go out soon, but the only thing stopping me is that she recently liked this guy and spent 5 nights over his place and they had sex twice. Its hurts a lot because I too had sex but didn't like the person as much as she liked him. We both lost it together and we both discussed how the innocence is gone between us, we also went out for 3 years. The day she came back from the guys house, they had a get together with some friends at her house and then she called me telling me how much I mean to her and that I'm the only guy she wants and we argued because she told she made out with the guy, so I saw her two days later and she told me she made out with the guy again! the same day she told me how she felt about me. It hurt a lot and I'm very confused at this moment, We had sex that day because I was caught up in the moment but In reality I cant get it through my head that she had sex with this guy and If she's worth going out with again.I know were single and we both have the right to do anything but I don't know do I get out of her life or do I stay in her life and see how things go? Am I ever going to accept what she she did or am I always going to have resentment towards her? How do I fix this feeling I'm having?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): Well, well, the pot calling the kettle black, eh?
Just because your sex was more meaningless than hers, you are now wondering whether she's "worth" going out with and whether you'll always resent her? You do realize how that sounds, right? Of course, jealousy is irrational.
Stop having sex and figure out how you feel about each other without it. That might throw a different light onto things between the two of you.
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