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My ex and I have casual sex but I still love her. How do I get back in her life?

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Question - (3 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2007)
A male age , anonymous writes:

two years ago my wife and i split up,i have now bought my own flat and doing really well,problem is i still love my wife dearly and cant get her out of my head,im a taxi driver and when my wife is out she phones me to pick her up and we end up back at my flat having sex,this has happened countless times,she has a single mate who shes out most weeks with,im sure she goes out most weekends just so she can fone me and have sex,but she always insists i take her home before my sons wake up, its been two years now and its killing me slowly,i so much want to go back home but she has told me it will never happen and that she likes being single, please help me sumone as im going crazy here, shes in my head all the time,i live alone and fell like im going insane ,i just want to be with her and my boys all the time.help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007):

cut the sex off she has the best of both worlds, sex with the ex , for her its sex , for you its to emotional, she is having her cake and getting it to , cut her off make her pay for the cab fair, stop being there for her , let her miss you . stop being the convincer ,you cant make someone love you .

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (4 January 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'm afraid that she has the best of both worlds right now so what reason would she have to change anything? You can try to get her to let you come back and recreate your marriage or you may have to just cut her off from the sex and try to move on with your life. Maybe she will come around once she knows that she can't have things both ways. Good luck.

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A female reader, mommyof2 +, writes (4 January 2007):

my advise to you is to let her know that if she wants to continue to have sex you want a realtionship again, she might feel comfortable with you because you two have history you need to let her know how you feel

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