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My dad's gone, my nan is here and I'm very unhappy!

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Question - (19 December 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *abii_girl writes:

ok well dunno where to start my dad left about 3 years ago now iv never got over it he was the only one would understood me we were always in each others pockets so to speak like each others shadows but then he changed my nan told my mum he had some sexual problem stuff that wasn't right cant really say but still so now mum doesn't let me see him im 17 and his been trying to contact me. i saw him once because he was outside collecting his things and i just had to to see him otherwise i would of regretted it so mum saw how upset i was and let me see him but when i got home she was so horrible to me so i stopped talking to him.

my nan has just moved in and i hate her because she kept so many secrets about my dad and she let me live a lie and hurt me now i have to live with her and its /hurting me how can i live with someone i hate shes doing everything my dad did so why is she still here when my dad had to leave?

i go to see a counselor about this but its not helping i just want my dad back the only thing is stopping me is my mum going off on one with me which is bad because she stood by me and i live with her and by what my nan said about his sexual problems but it hurting me by not seeing him and having my nan live with me is the last straw! mum said i should grow up because i cause arguments but i do it because i cant keep it in i dont like her being here and its horrible because shes my nan i just duno what to do anymore? please help

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