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Guys view on what girls they chose as girlfriends

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Question - (19 December 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2008)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

are a girl's physical looks very important to guys and how he chooses a girl?

ugly ,fat girl= great personality?

or

gorgeous ,slim girl = rotten personality

what do you think lads?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008):

Personality is separate to looks and just because you are slim does not make you have a rotten personality...why on earth would a girl need to feel rotten in the first place?

fAT THIN PRETTY OR UGLY it is the individual that shines through. Thin does not equal rotten....and fat does not equal jolly....Quite often thinnies suffer, nobody thinks twice about making a personal comment on how thin somebody may look, but turn it the other way around saying how fat someone looks, and there is uproar. I see Mr Crafter is insulting women again. Still angry about women especially beautiful ones? calling them retards tut tut. The world is also flooded with Emotional retards. There appears in this world to be a lot of anger and jealousy aimed at beautiful women especially if they are thin, often referred to as fake as well. These rotten ,good looking ,thin ,fake, women HAPPEN TO BE REAL HUMAN BEINGS . Intellect is great, but so is a pair of legs. Some men like to TALK about legs and Some men like to WALK with the legs. ROTTEN DOES NOT EQUAL THIN , BUT ROTTEN DOES EQUAL the sweeping statement GOOD LOOKING WOMEN ARE RETARDS.

via con dios. xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008):

Be a chameleon.. Just be whatever you think a potential target is looking for. If he likes blonds?? Bleach ur hair. If he likes skinny chicks.. Skip a few meals. It won't kill u. Its all for the cause. Don't be afraid to dumb down.. Men like shit like that. They wanna be the smart one. Some people might dissagree with my opinion, and that's cool.. But I practice what I preach, and I landed a VP @ a top 10 Fortune 500 Co. Its worth it. People who say "money can't buy happiness" don't have any.. I have it now, and it would take all the Botox in LA to take this grin off my face.

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A male reader, Crafter Bulgaria +, writes (19 December 2008):

Crafter agony auntYes, like of on the previous answer stated: Looks give you the firs ten minutes, but then you'll need to present something more than blue eyes and long legs.

Just about any girl can look pretty if she spends some beauty time. But if you carry no intellectual baggage...

See, here I want to say that you "stand no chance", but I'd be lying. The world is flooded with retarded, good looking women.

Don't be one of those.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008):

It changes with age. As a teen, 20s its looks. Older looks are less important. Men get wiser with age.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008):

I'm not an expert but as a girl..I find the looks get the attention and the personality keeps the attention.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008):

I always thought the 'choice' bit was down to the girl! The boys do the offering - the girls do the accepting (or not).

For a start, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Whether a girl is ugly or not is entirely a matter of personal taste on the part of the boy. Where one boy might find a particular female stunningly attractive, another one might find her rather ugly. Everyone has something good about themselves to offer, be it looks or personality. Naturally, if a particular female has boatloads of both it would be an attractive attribute.

To my mind, all women are beautiful - it's just a question of degree.

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