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My current relationship suffers sexually because of my past

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Question - (12 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a young mother I've been in a relationship now for 4 years before this started I was in a different relationship which I was made to do things I didn't want to as in sexually now in this relationship I can't enjoy sex which it upsets my partner! I feel uncomfortable and am very jumpy every time what do I do?

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A male reader, lovelynightmare United States +, writes (12 January 2009):

lovelynightmare agony auntI would second what satindesire posted as I have had a g/f in about the same situation. Her mental life, sex life was in a thousand different pieces from a previous relationship and seeing a professional for help was the best way to start.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009):

there is no way to get over what youve been threw ive been threw the same thing, besides being a mother, but i have been in a relationship where i was made to do things, it took me along time to get comfortable with my partner now.....and sometimes its still hard for me, you just have to trust your partner and understand he isnt the guy who hurt you....

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