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writes:Is it normal to feel depress when your crush found out you like him? I mean he said he was sorry for trying to get me to hook him up with my friends. I should be happy because he hasn't let our friendship be awkward at all. But i can honestly say i was better off him not knowing because if he talked to some girl i would keep it to my self because i really like him. Now that he knows I feel like he might try to hurt me. I wanna move and try to forget him. But we go to the same church, parents are friend so basically i will never stop seeing him. What would be a good way to cope with getting over him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry mamabear for not making myself clear i meant: it might hurt me to see him with other girls. And yetilicious: thanks, really helped me.
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (25 March 2011):
 So, he knows that you like him and he didn't ask you out?If so, it means he's not interested. Never let this guy know if you're jealous seeing him with other chicks. I would find someone who IS interested, and nice, funny, etc...and go out with them. Spend a lot of time with this new person, get to know them well, soon your feelings for this other guy will dissappear, and you will be thinking about him and how much he loves being around you, instead of this "crush".
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (25 March 2011):
You did not mention how you think this guy can hurt you. Physically? Emotionally? I suggest you keep your distance from him - at church and where ever else you two could come in contact. If you two were not in a relationship, then this all was some figment of your emotions and imagination. Put all this energy into your studies, your job if you have one, your girl friends, etc. This is how you can cope with your "crush". And, if things could/would get out of hand, physically, then take action. Talk with your parents who, in turn, can talk with the police for your protection.
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