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writes: I wanted to know... well lately my boyfriend has not been acting the same. He always has an excuse on why he didn't call back or when we are on the phone he's really not paying me any attention. Or he says 'let me call you right back' and it will be hours or the next day. So I wanted to know, what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (6 July 2006):
 Hi dearie,
I know this will perhaps be difficult for you to take but my own advise for you is that you should try and relax. Dont read too many meanings into every call delay or responses.There could be many reasons that can explain why he forgot to call back or seem distracted.He might have been sincerely busy when you called and perhaps forgot to call you back.It can be anything really.
You can ask him that you have noticed he seems distracted lately if he is okay.You dont have to mention the phone calls or him not listening to you so that he doesnt feel you are possesive or whatever guys tend to think we females are.I am sure in time you will find out the cause but whatever it is just i know that you will be able to handle it.
Take care and goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2006): I'm sorry that he's not giving you 100% attention. Cool off a bit, don't text,phone or contact him for a while. If he really appreciates you then he will be running after you.If he doesn't contact you, then you know he wasn't the one for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2006): I'd back off a bit...let him wonder why you are cooling off! Don't call him, don't nag him about why he didn't call and just get busy living your life without him..hang out with your girlfriends etc...when he does call, be friendly and warm but also hold off from chatting and let him try and carry the conversation...he might regain interest in you simply becuase he can't stand your sudden lack of interest in him or he may be relieved because he is ready to move on...either way you at least get results.
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