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writes: I have been with my boyfriend officially 7 months now and have known each other for a couple of years. Things were great to start and as time went by feelings became stronger. Oh, prior to him I was preggo before we became exclusive and he didn't care. He new my situation. Needless to say, I have the most beautiful baby girl.(2 months) Anyway up until march he started working a lot. At the beginning, he'd call everyday just to check on me. When I asked him why I don't hear from him as much he said he loved me and he was trying to get things together for us to have a house together. I never had that before. I love him so much. I just don't want it to be the same when we are all under 1 roof. I'm worried that he's putting so much on his plate that it will strain our ready made family. He also spoke of me being all he wants in a future sense and he wants more kids. Now, I am not so sure. What should I do? Sorry, it's so long. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006): I am updating from my last question. Well, I heard from today and he sounded beautiful to me. He was joking as usual. Only thing is, now he is in Augusta, GA. I was at least able to let him know how I feel that he's not here and I understand he has a lot on his plate. He had been having trouble with his cell which, he warned me about during the call. Five minutes later, we were cut off. Someone Please, tell me how to cope. I have a friend who keeps approaching me and wants me as more than a friend. Being that I am in love with my bf and he with me I knew not to cross that line until, my "friend" kissed me. The problem is we felt a spark and now it's tempting. Oooh, how can I get my bf to be here more.
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reader, seamus +, writes (25 June 2006):
Hi, not exactly sure this is a proper answer but just letting you know that I am in a simular situation as your boyfriend. I have recently gotten engaged to be married and have taken up a job which affords me little free time to be with her. I too am working towards getting a house for us and altough there is no baby involved I assure you that altough I don't see my girlfriend as much I plan on spending my future with her in our own home, and am looking forward to living with her. So maybe your boyfriends like me and is genuine in what he says and is just working really hard at the moment so he can enjoy a better future with you. The best advice I can give you is talk to him and tell him how you feel.
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