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Im not perfect but I hope I have been through enough in life to help others. I live in England and im 26, married with 2 children.

My boyfriend will stare at my face for at least 30 minutes! Why is he doing this?

Q.   Somebody please help me, right now i am so stuck and i dont know what to do. I have this boyfriend of mine whom we have been together for at least four months now. My inner voice is telling me that he loves me and cares about me. Everybody know...

A.   10 September 2009: He is probably in love with you. Oh its so lovely. Trust me he would not stare at you if you were ugly. He must be in ore of how beautiful you are to him and I imagine it feels very special, just enjoys it.Go for it... (read in full...)

My situation is a little confusing...

Q.   My situation is a little confusing. I met this guy 4 months ago. We like each other a lot. There is a serious possibility of a long term relationship, but no verbal commitment till date. He seems to genuinely care for me and I do too. But, I ...

A.   10 September 2009: Hi there, first of all ask him about the dating site he may of been on it before he meet you. Also why was you on it to find it? Anyway do you love him? maybe you should verbally tell him and he may tell you the same and then you know and then the ... (read in full...)

I feel as though my life is at a stand-still. Please help!

Q.   Please Help, I am 20 years old and have recently bought a house with my boyfriend of two and a half years which we moved into May 2009. Although I was over excited at the time I regret the decision I made with a vengeance. I feel like when I reac...

A.   10 September 2009: Hi, there you sound like me, I feel exactly the same in my relationship except I have 2 children so its more complicated for me. Either go out togther more to see if the spark returns nothing expensive romantic walks picnics etc.But I almost feel ... (read in full...)

How to tell my man that grunting during sex is a turn-off?

Q.   Hello, I enjoy sex w/ my man and I like a little noise (moaning/sighing/etc.), but the last time we had sex he must have felt more free/relaxed and began grunting. I didn't know until it happened that I find this a turn-off. I looked online an...

A.   4 August 2009: Its not the end of the world, you did not say how long you had been together.I imagine its a new relationship. Its hard to say you could be honest but I understand you dont want to hurt his feelings, just kiss him everytime he does it depending what ... (read in full...)

His mother's comments have put a huge hole in my confidence about our relationship

Q.   My boyfriends mother invited me round for dinner while my boyfriend was away, and got talking about various tings, after a few drinks she asked if we were using 'extra protection' as my boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship that wasnt ...

A.   4 August 2009: I would not listen to her, mothers normally try to protect their sons. You are talking to the wrong person. You need to talk to your boyfriend about the future just casually. Say do you think we will get married one day and would you consider having ... (read in full...)

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