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anonymous
writes:hi, my bf thinks i flirt to much but i dont think i do, he thinks laughing with some other guy is flirtying, flirting is oart of my personaily, i am trying hard to work not flirt, so can you help me please, what should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): if it bugs him than maybe you can just give him more attention.and a little less attention to other guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): Hi,for years, I have been thinking that 'to flirt' is to engage in a social exchange ultimately leading to a sexual relationship (I am not a native English speaker). When I have finally looked the word up, the definition suggested the opposite; no sex is intended. Given that you are not out there sleeping around on your boyfriend, I consider your social behavior innocent. You may be friendly, you may enjoy company of some people more than others, and that's just normal. The word 'to flirt' should be thrown out of the dictionary.Enjoy your life with your boyfriend, and once / if he becomes overbearing, move on. Good luck.
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reader, jaime90  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 ok my bf is the same and were actually breaking up over it. He wont let me go out because he is too insecure and thinks im going to find someone else when really i just want to go dance with the girls.On new years eve he was playing guitar hero which i hate for hours when he was wasted and left me sitting by myself so a guy who was a friend of a friend asked me to play guess who. He got sooo angry at me, but he is the one who left me. He said i should have sat there by myself.Dont change who u are. He thinks ur flirting but i think u just have a naturally friendly and bubbly personality. Dont let him get u down! Just assure him u love him and its ur personality
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Trying isn't actually doing anything. Saying that you are "Trying" simply gives you an out... an excuse.
This time, stop trying and Do what you said you would do.
It's really quite simple, Stop flirting!!!
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reader, LoveAngel216 +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Flirting is natural. Lots of people do it even if they dont mean to. So its only natural if you do flirt. But if you're just laughing with other guys then there should be no problem. I sense a bit of jealousy and/or insecurity on your boyfriends end. You should talk to him and reassure him that you aren't interested in the guys hes accusing you of "flirting" with. But i personally think there is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting. Hope this helps and good luck!!
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