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Should I break up with him? If so, where, when and how?

Q.   I'm going out with a boy from the year above who really likes me and I kinda like him. He kept asking me out for months and has liked me for a year I think. The only problem is he gets jelous easily, but tries to hide it, coz I have lots of guy...

A.   23 July 2009: wow! this guy sounds like me a lot but anyway i think you should go somewhere private with him and say look im so so sorry but thins just isn't working out any more but can we still please be friends? ok so goodluck... (read in full...)

Always depressed, lonely, distant...

Q.   I feel crap and I have tried talking to some adults about it. Just feel depressed all the time when I'm at home, but when I get to school or wherever then i'm usually really happy. I know you are probably thinking it's hormones, but it got so bad ...

A.   23 July 2009: hey im the same age as you and i will give u advice but i would like to do it by a private message so please send me a message because im exactly like you. tell me this in your house you feel so insecure that you want to sit in your bedroom with the ... (read in full...)

I just don't know why no one likes me. Can you help me?

Q.   Why am i so lonely? I mean, I am 14 and I have never been kissed and have only ever had one gf but I dont understand because I think Im a nice guy and im quite sensitive but I just dont know why no one likes me! can u help me please??...

A.   23 July 2009: hey i would like to thank all of u but mostly RAINORFIRE,damluvaam[denny] and red green 0289. and i would like to say im sorry because i forgot but i dont like to boast that i am top of all my classes and i read a lot.... (read in full...)

Why has my boyfriend started calling me names and being horrible?

Q.   hey guys (: ive been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months now, weve generally been really happy together although he is rather prone to mood swings (a couple of times we almost ended the relationship over them). recently we spent a week together...

A.   22 July 2009: i think u should tell him how u feel and i think somethin might be on his mind so goodluck.... (read in full...)

He tells me he loves me by text but not in person, should I be worried about this?

Q.   My boyfriend loves me. He's told me via text. Also when he's drunk. I also know that he wants us to last forever and move in together. But again, he says this through text or when he's drunk. I know he has communiation problems, but why won't he say ...

A.   22 July 2009: because i am like this guy cause i get really nervous around girls i like and i freeze up and end up sayin stupid things and i find it easier by text because i can truly express my feelins without being afraid.... (read in full...)

Should I call the maths teacher I'm in love with?

Q.   I am 17 and in college. I am in love with my Maths teacher, we talk all the time, I feel so much love for him its untrue. I think he has feelings for me too. We have finished college for the summer and he gave me his mobile number and home address...

A.   22 July 2009: hey eyeswideopen i have noticied u have an attitude towards people who are asking a simple question! but anyway i think u shouldnt bother even if u are in love with him i think a better method would be hangin out with guys and get to know them and u ... (read in full...)

I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?

Q.   heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...

A.   21 July 2009: thank you for taking my advice!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend suddenly doesn't trust me

Q.   So my boyfriend has been acting like a little strange lately. Like he's a chill sorta dude but lately he freaks out about the littlest things! Like on my myspace i change my mood status a lot and for one it said "talking on the phone with ----" and ...

A.   21 July 2009: well im your age and a guy ok so i think maybe that your bf saw you with another guy and you might have been gettin along well with him and your bf might have got suspicious.... (read in full...)

I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?

Q.   heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...

A.   21 July 2009: hey just be yourself around him and get him relaxed and make sure you are comfortable doing this ok and you never know you might enjoy yourself so have fun and good luck.... (read in full...)

Family making fun of my best friend and his family

Q.   hi im 13 and i have this best friend and he has a sister the same age as my older brother, then my older brother decided to go out with my best mates sister and i thought this would be awkward but it turned out to make us better friends and i even ...

A.   21 July 2009: hey sorry I'm actually 14 made mistake not that it matters anyway.... (read in full...)

Why do I have constant nightmares?

Q.   I'm a thirteen year old guy and I'm starting to get scared because I never have dreams I only have nightmares I usually have a really long nightmare every night and I'm starting to get scared can anyone tell me why I am having constant nightmares??...

A.   21 July 2009: i had the same dream again last night i tried to stop it but i cant its like an uncontrollable dream it keeps happening why wont it stop!... (read in full...)

My friends feel more like family than my actual family do

Q.   Hello. I would assume its an issue. When I'm around my parents I'm quiet, easily annoyed and angered. I have a step-mother, with her I feel like the 3rd party ya know? I get left out with my family. Cleaning,running errands for my parents and what...

A.   21 July 2009: dude i have the same problem but this is your story not mine so i think its because they might seem to treat you with more respect and they dont hit you like an older brother would and they are there for you when no one else is because i no that is ... (read in full...)

Would it be proper to ask a guy to hang out at your house on a first get together?

Q.   i am thinking of asking the guy i like out and i think he will say yes as i know he likes me as well. i was thinking that we could hang out at my house as i know neither of us has a lot of money. is this okay to do for a first date or would it be ...

A.   21 July 2009: yea of course! i would certainly prefer a girl asking me to come to her house. i think you should go out the night before though and rent some scary movies and buy some pop corn and you could make it like a cheap cinema! you should especially do ... (read in full...)

I attract quiet innocent guys, how to attract sexually adventurous ones?

Q.   I look very sweet, lovely and innocent and so I tend to attract guys who are looking for those qualities, especially because I'm quite shy with people I've just met. The thing is, I'm actually nothing like that - I'm really wild, free and sexual. So ...

A.   21 July 2009: excuse me? listen are you even giving these innocent guys chance because by the way u wrote it, it seems that you only trying to look for a guy who likes sex just so you can have sex but these innocent guys could be really nice but shy and you never ... (read in full...)

Why do I have constant nightmares?

Q.   I'm a thirteen year old guy and I'm starting to get scared because I never have dreams I only have nightmares I usually have a really long nightmare every night and I'm starting to get scared can anyone tell me why I am having constant nightmares??...

A.   21 July 2009: thank very much your help is apreciateed.... (read in full...)

I broke up with her because my friends said I should. Now I want her back but she said no!

Q.   there was this girl lets say she is called j and we went out and we really liked each other and it was great until people started making fun of me because j isnt the prettiest and i ignored them but then my own friends said they will fall out with ...

A.   20 July 2009: i know that thats why i went out with her in the first place but still thank you i should have mentioned more that is my bad.... (read in full...)

Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!

Q.   I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and ...

A.   20 July 2009: but do u want to date the girl,would you acctually kiss here?? if so then i would think you are bi but i dont see anything wrong with it.... (read in full...)

She's way too pretty for me but I like her!

Q.   last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...

A.   20 July 2009: thank u all u have been great help!!... (read in full...)

Why do I have constant nightmares?

Q.   I'm a thirteen year old guy and I'm starting to get scared because I never have dreams I only have nightmares I usually have a really long nightmare every night and I'm starting to get scared can anyone tell me why I am having constant nightmares??...

A.   20 July 2009: no i havent played the xbox in about 1 month and i have been out most days with my best friend and what worries me is that i have had dreams that have came true before.... (read in full...)

Why do I have constant nightmares?

Q.   I'm a thirteen year old guy and I'm starting to get scared because I never have dreams I only have nightmares I usually have a really long nightmare every night and I'm starting to get scared can anyone tell me why I am having constant nightmares??...

A.   20 July 2009: thanks but its the same dream over again it is me and my best friend in the army and he keeps getting shot and its repeating in my head.... (read in full...)

Afraid if I say 'I love you' he'll be scared away!

Q.   Okay so me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and I just feel like I'm falling head over heels for him, I think I love him. The problem is, I don't know how to say you know I love you. I'm never the one to make the first move or anything so ...

A.   20 July 2009: well as a guy I would actually like to be told that someone loves me but what you could try is saying to him do you love me?? and if he says yes then you know you are all right plus he cant be scared of if you simply ask him if he loves you.... (read in full...)

She's way too pretty for me but I like her!

Q.   last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...

A.   20 July 2009: thank you everyone... (read in full...)

She's way too pretty for me but I like her!

Q.   last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...

A.   20 July 2009: hey thanks all but i forgot to say that i have had her msn for quite a while now and i know quite a bit about her but we just have never met im really sorry that a forgot that my bad...... (read in full...)

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