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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been arguing alot lately, and he has started to lie to me about things. I love him loads but I don't know what to do anymore, I want to scared him by finishing it - thinking that he will come back to me, but I don't think it will? What should I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): Well this can be tricky, Being a bloke and having told not the whole truth about certain subjects, it really depends on the topic and what the lie is about, if you are asking questions from past relationships or even past history in regards to behaviour then some times the truth is not the best answer, simple rule if your not going to like the answer dont ask the questions, its only natural we are intriuged about our partners past, its a way of trying to put a value on a person, how ever in my opionion this can do more harm then good, generally speaking alot of us have made mistakes in the past which hopefully we learnt from and never want to repeat, I too am in a simular situation were we have seperated but still consider to be in a relationships, its hard work you have to decide whether or not its worth continuing, being honest to oneself can be harder then being honest to loved ones
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reader, Beachblonde11 +, writes (2 May 2006):
 If he is really startind to lie i would just tell him you cant have trust if you lie and id we dont have trust we dont have a relationship! i would tell him that you need to take a break... be single for a while and just be a girl, and flirt! and he should realize that if he wants you back then he needs to stop lying!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (2 May 2006):
 Funnily enough a few of us had a converstaion about this the other night. Basically some of the men in the group say they tell *little white lies* as a reflex mechanism, in order to stop further probing questions by their better half!! My hubby admits to it as well.....
What sort of things is this guy lieing about. Any lie is dishonest but is it serious enought o warrant walking away form him forever? You need to judge that for yourslef.
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