My boyfriend said he wanted space, I am a wreck, how do I get him to realize, how great we would be together, please help?

A female age 41-50, *estiny28 writes:

It's been over a month now... I haven't seen the guy I don't seem to get out of my head... we were together for 3 intense months... and things just fell apart...he said he needs time apart in order for us to be friends... It's a pain everyday... he goes through my thougths... I dream about him... but who am I kidding...I know you guys will tell me to move on and find someone who can appreciate me for who I am etc... I have been in relationships etc... I know how it works...when the heart takes over and this is what it's telling what else is there to do...all I can wish for is for him to call/text let me know he is thinking about me and misses but nothing...nothing at all... it's so stupid and naiv of me to even be in this situation writing this...He said he is hurting and misses me but he needs time... it's all sad..but the reason it didn't work cuz he wasn't ready for me in life...he still wan be free like most men ...don't see a reason why it is necessary to stick to one woman when there's so many out there to choose from...phew... I dunno what to do...I would really like to see him and have our laughs like before cuz we had awesome fun together... pls don write to get over him and move on...this is what I have been trying to do and pls don tell me time will take this all away... I don know what feedback I am expecting but how on earth would I be able to make him realise what he is missing out on...???

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