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My boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me

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Question - (5 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 July 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have currently been in a LDR for the last nine months.

It was a hard nine months, but he finally moved back to my home town two weeks ago. Everything has been going so great.

We have our up's and down's, but nothing to major. Today, he told me he wasn't going to meet me and I told him I wasn't going to come see him then, as a joke.

He called me and blew up, and then his brother sent me a text saying, _____ says its over!

Are we really over? I don't understand this. How can he just blow off nine months like that. I understand where he is coming from and I know somethings I need to change

but is it to late?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009):

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He was getting a tattoo done, but I was not aware of this. I don't like walking to his house all alone because he is not in the best area of town and it's a lonely and far walk.

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A female reader, Loveless Marriage United States +, writes (5 July 2009):

I agree. Make the call and ask the question. For all you know the brother has relayed messages two ways and been exaggerating both way! This is one of those times you really do have to get it straight from the source!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009):

Well firstly you should calm down. Tomorrow or whenever possible you should call him and ask him what is up. If it is his brother sending it, it could be a trick. Even if it is not a trick the least he could do is give you an explanation.

Good luck!

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