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My boyfriend never wants to see me, but always has time for his XBox!

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Question - (21 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *ophiethestar writes:

My boyfriend never wants to see me. We only ever see each other at school. I ask him if he wants to meet up on a weekend but he always says he's busy, and half of the time I know he's not busy because he'll be on his Xbox all day. I feel like he doesn't care about me, but deep down inside I know that he does. I need to talk to him but I don't know what to say. I'd love to scream and shout at him because he annoys me so much, but it's not a sensible way to deal with things. I've tried telling him how I feel before and he'll say sorry but doesn't do anything about it. How can I make him realise that he's upsetting me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009):

Hon, a guy that's really keen on you is going to want to see you. My bf loves his PS3 and has been known to stay up til 3 o'clock in the morning playing on it. BUT, the reason I don't have a problem with it is because if I'm lieing on his bed while hes twiddling away on the console, he will still turn to me, kiss me and say lovely things. Even then, when I'm around he'll turn it off after not too long becuase he wants to spend time with me. Yes, boys love their games but they also love their girls. Find a guy that can give you the attention you want. Your worth alot more than stupid games x.

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A male reader, volcomdrew32 United States +, writes (21 January 2009):

Wow hun! Ok you need to find a new man. Anytime a guy would rather play xbox over being with a girl he cares about has issues. If you do want to say something tell him if he doesnt change your going to leave him, and if he says sorry and doesnt change make sure you dump him.


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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (21 January 2009):

Griffo agony auntOften computer games, the internet and computers are highly addictive devices. It is becoming more recognised that it is like a drug. It seems to be he could be addicted to his xbox. This has nothing to do with you, don't worry.

But i would be enclined to pop round to his house oneday and see how he is. show initiative using face to face communication.

Good luck :)

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