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My boyfriend lives far away, will he get fed up?

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Question - (30 May 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have been seeing my boyfriend for about a month, i really like him but he lives quite far and cant see me every day, i understand this but i just feel as though he will get fed up and meet someone who lives closer to him. what do you think?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008):

if ever when he is around he tries by all means to make every minute count then there's nothing to worry about. do not make axcuses when he is not around. 'cause he will not be fed up as you think. you know you have to be tenacios and stop stressing yourself.iam also in a distance relationship and it's going very fine and its my third year now and we its good.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006):

Trust me, if you want to make it work, you'll make it work weather its 3 1/2 hours drive or 14 hours i should know, but unfortunately my world has been turned upside down tonight, funny how things turn out.

Give it a chance and you'll work it - shame the girl i thought i was fallin in love with dont wanna know.

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A female reader, chunky_monkey +, writes (30 May 2006):

Give the relationship a chance. This past year my boyfriend went away to college about 5 hours away. I really worried about what you are now too. But he actually loved me and didnt even look around. Instead mid-year he gave me a promise ring and now i know he is looking for an engagement rings as i had imput. Just give everything a chance and if it is meant to be it will work out

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2006):

Wendyg agony auntHey give the relationship a chance. Its not nearly got off the ground yet. Just because you cant see each other all the time doesnt mean you will like each other any less. Let him know how you feel, not full on, but mention that the distance is a bit of a pain and that you are keen, and would depsite this really like to make the effort to have a good go at a relationship. Just see how things go, just because you are not around the corner doesnt mean hes going to find someone else. Hes been in a relationship with you for a month, so he likes you, dont go worrying just yet. If you like someone enough you dont get fed up, you find a way of being together and make the effort. At least your wont be living in each others pockets and will be giving it a chance to grow and flourish!

Good luck

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