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My boyfriend keeps hinting me that we should have sex... how do I get more into the idea?

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Question - (23 May 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am really worried because my boyfriend keeps hinting that we should hav sex but although i am a little scared i really want too, what can i do to help myself get more ammune to the idea???

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A female reader, Fiona xxx United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2008):

Fiona xxx agony auntYou seem too young, and the fact that you are questioning the opportunity, means that you are too young.

If you were ready, you wouldn't be asking, and you would have already had sex.

Please don't be pressured, there is more peer pressure about sex than anything else. Indeed don't feel pressured by your boyfriend, it's not worth it.

I am not sure how long you have been dating, but do wait and wait.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

If you are not ready it's best to wait. I got pushed into it and I wasn't ready and it was very painful for me. He didn't hang around long after that either. x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

Think about the pros and cons about it!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

You should definately wait. You already know that. If your boyfriend is preesuring you then maybe you should look for someone who wont.

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A female reader, sxc baby gurl +, writes (23 May 2008):

if you are having any feelings that you remotly dont want to then you should definately wait

its not worth risking something

and if you have any kind of feelings against it then it meens your not 100% wanting to so should wait

xxx

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A male reader, AkasunaNoSasori United States +, writes (23 May 2008):

AkasunaNoSasori agony auntYou shouldn't be forced to do something you don't feel comfortable doing. You're still young and sex isn't something you should be doing at that age anyway, don't let him pressure you into thinking you HAVE to have sex

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A female reader, chihuahua1274 United States +, writes (23 May 2008):

chihuahua1274 agony auntgirl if you are younger than 15 than u shudnt but if u want to maybe watch porn or ask a close friend who has done it or do it with a pillow try seeing how u like it remember use a condom ohh or try fingering yourself maybe disgusting but imagine your bf doing it instead of you!

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