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My boyfriend keeps doing things with the girl he cheated on me with!

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Question - (6 December 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

what should i do if my boyfriend is still doing things with the girl he cheated on me with and getting off the bus together and every time he goes somewhere she happens to be there too? what should i do i love him with everything i have and i dont want to go on with out him. HELP!!!

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A male reader, Prada +, writes (7 December 2006):

I would just tell him how you are feeling about the situation and just be very honest tell him you do not feel comfortable that he is hanging out with her all the time.I would realy just ask him to stop and if he doesnt you really should just leave him because you should not have to go through all of this with him since he has already hurt you once.You have to do what makes you happy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006):

Sweetheart, I've been there. As the first reader insinuated, she probably does not "happen" to be there. There is a very good chance that there is more to it. Talk to him about it. Keep it calm and stay cool and collected. If he does not respect your feelings, he is not worth it. Missie is right too. They usually don't change. Be careful and take care.

xoxo

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006):

If he really respected you and regretted what he'd done, he'd try to understand what you're feeling and break all contact with this girl.

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A female reader, Missie +, writes (6 December 2006):

girl, once a .... always a ... am sure you saw it coming, he has no regard for women, hate to say it, but what goes around does come around. But dont let yourself be the victim, you know him btter than that. Damp him, he no good.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006):

He cheated on you with her, and she "just happens" to be wherever he goes, socially.

You may love him and not want to lose him, but you really should begin thinking about him as your EX-boyfriend - that is, give him the old heave-ho!

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