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writes:hey guys,I started with my boyfriend on the 22nd of september 2010 and he keeps asking me i wanna kiss him but i dunno what to do.I`m scared if i say i`ll loss him and if i say yes i dunno what will happen because i`ve never kissed a boy befor because i`m only 15. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answers guys i`m just ganna tell him not yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): This really is sweet...even refreshing, I'd say! :)
Well, if you're really into this boy and feel like you can trust him...just tell him that you want to & that you're nervous! There is nothing wrong with that! Not to mention, that even though the first kiss might be a little bit awkward, it will come quite naturally. Chances are that you'll like it, and want to do it more...before you know it, you'll be a pro!
I'm assuming this is even that you want to kiss him. If you're not ready, don't rush into it! Just tell him that it's not time yet. There's nothing wrong with that!
PS- if it makes you feel any better, I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17 because I wasn't ready before that (even though I had a "boyfriend")...! So there is no shame in waiting. Just do what feels right for YOU! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): Yea, Dirtball has it right. He is pushing this much after only two days, he wont stop with wanting a kiss. I think you need to find a new boyfriend hon, this one wants you for the wrong reasons. Trust me.
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reader, fallenangel95  +, writes (24 September 2010):
..Well I can see where your coming from, i'm 15 as well. I have kissed a good number of boys and girls! But anyway I can understand why you are nervous and scared. I would not kiss him until you feel good about it. Of course since your going out you must have feelings for him! Don't kiss kiss him if you don't or if it doesn't feel right. I would take a chance and go for it! you only live once!!! good luck!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Wow, dating for two whole days and you're worried about losing him already.
Listen, you should never do anything you aren't comfortable with. Never. If you aren't ready to kiss him, then tell him that. If you lose him over it, that will be his loss. He doesn't sound like a very nice boy to me. To be putting so much pressure on you after only two days. I wonder what he'll be pushing for next.
When you are ready for your first kiss, you'll know it. It will feel right. I don't think you should be concerned about what will happen, but don't let him do anything you aren't comfortable with. There is never a need to rush these things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): Aww thats cute. Its nice to see a message like that from a girl your age rather one asking about STIs or pregnancy!
If you want to kiss him, find a nice private place then do it. Its easy to do.
If you are unsure just say "Not yet". If hes a good guy he should accept this.
If you do kiss him, start off slowly.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 September 2010):
 Dont worry about it darling, we all have been there worrying about our first kiss, but there really is nothing to worry about it will come naturally to both of you, if ou dont feel ready though then you should say no but if its just nerves that is holding you back just go for it. Good Luck Hunni.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010): I think it's sweet, kiss him when the time is right. Maybe google kissing techniques (which will probably tell you to practice on your pillow) so you know what to do when the moment comes, but honestly speaking from experience you will know what to do when it happens. Maybe you can start off with just a peck, which is nice and simple, and as you grow more comfortable you can move on from there. I hope this has helped x
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