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My boyfriend is with me but looking for hook ups!

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Question - (7 May 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, *enta writes:

I am stuck. I have been with this man for 19 months with him 6 nights a week. We do a lot together. I know his family, they love me. We say I love you but I thibk I am seeing a serial dated. I have his voice mail password an when he goes out he leaves his number with women and they call within the last week he had 3 new girls calling him.

We don't have sex as I would like. He isn't all over me he does kiss me an tell me I am sexy but is he out lookin for hook UPS I have asked him where I stood with him an tells me he loves me an sees me in his life for a long time but I know I need to break it off. Can a man love you an still look for random hook UPS I'm starting to think somethings wrong with me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012):

I had the same issue as a 34 yo professional woman and single mom of 2. I got fed up with his butt and left and I have been soo much better off and you will too. No one deserves that crap..

If nothing else remember this......

Dont make someone a priority in your life

When you are only a option in theirs.

There is someone out there for all of us, not someone who goes and looks for hookups and makes you sit and wonder what is wrong with you.

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