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My boyfriend is small! really small! Any idea on how to improve things?

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Question - (6 June 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi all.. okay ive been seeing my boyfriend for a while now, the last couple of weeks we've started sleeping together, however he is really really small and im not getting any sexual gratification. He already forwarned me that he was small and I dont have a great problem with it, anyone got any ideas on how we can improve things in the bedroom department?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007):

In my opinion, size dosnt matter. Only the first third of the vagina is sensitive to touch, which is why some woman dont have an orgasm through sex, cos the upper third of the vagina dosnt have all them nerve endings. When your having sex, why not arouse your clitoris yourself? Your boyfriends thrusting will also keep you in the mood, trust me.

You could also try this: Get your boyfriend to 'poke' his penis inside and out, but only so it touches the first sensitive third of the vagina, this should feel AMAZING!!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2007):

if you are willing to try toy-type things, there are things that men can wear that actually add length, like this [don't open this in the office/ parents house!]

http://www.adameve.com/Sex-Toys/Erection-Enhancers-Sex-Toys/sp-cyberskin-x-tra-cock-Sex-Toys-4797.aspx

but, this also could offend him, so you'd have to talk it out and see what he was open to.

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A female reader, Helen Help! :) United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2007):

Helen Help! :) agony auntHey Huni

There are loads of different positions you can do to make it go in deeper you should check some out on the internet. I can think of two one is lie on your back with ur legs up and bent thn have him lie on top of you tht goes in really deep and another is once his penis is inside you while hes on top sorta put your legs togeather straight n flat down on bed and his legs on the out side of yours i hope you understand that but like i sed check out some positions on net and give them a try see what happens good luck :)

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (6 June 2007):

kenny agony auntHaving a small manhood is not such a great issue because its how you use it that counts. Sometimes you can get guy's with really big genitalia, and are rubbish because they have not got a clue how to use it.

You have only been sleeping with him for two weeks, give it time and experiment with foreplay, or even role play to get you both in the mood.

All the best x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

Do some research on sexual positions that make the most of what he has got, there are lots of books out there on sex...any position that brings him closer and allows deeper penetration will do the trick, also, it is how he uses it that matters, lots of smaller guys can get to your g spot easier than a big guy during intercourse, so don't give up the ghost yet..

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