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My boyfriend is having erection problems

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Question - (26 November 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2006)
A female , *omsgirl writes:

My boyfriend is 19 and having erection problems and we very strongly feel it is due to marijuana usage. He has a strong desire to have sexual intercourse and gets 'turned on'. He is now getting scared when it comes to trying sex thinking he will not become erect and he doesn't. I'm unsure whether some is psychological. He can get an erection during masturbation and ejaculate but when it comes to him having intercourse he will get a semi- erection and it will just disappear again. He has previously also taken very infrequently ecstasy and cocaine in small portions. I don't take drugs and therefor don't understand. We have anaged sex 3 times- naturally the first time he was nervous as I am a few years older than him, he thought he would be a let down to me but he appeared to be over that problem and now is getting physical erection problems. Please could I have some advise.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006):

Im 21 and my boyfriend is 22...we are haivng the same problem, only with one difference, my boyfriend is not a drug user. He can get an erection and ejaculate through masturbation but when it comes down to intercourse he loses it. We dont know what to try next...Help?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2006):

I have the exact same problem with my boyfriend. im 16 and hes 18. he smokes week (alot), and does speed and coke. ive never done it, and hes trying to stop. we tried to have sex 3 times , but each time its only half up.he can get it up when he masterbates too. We though at first that he was just nervous but now we think its something more. i dont know whats wrong wtih him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2005):

I have the exact same problem with my girlfriend! i dont know whats wrong! what worries me is that I've had ecstacy on a number of occasions too but i doubt it does anything downstairs. at the min im blaming condoms, i cant feel a fucking thing thru them :( sorry i cant be of any more help

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