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writes:Hi aunts My boyfriend is in the army and going over-seas soon Im so scared for him and worried how ill cope not having a lot of contact Someone suggested blueys but i dont know what these are can anyone tell me please Thank's Reply to this Question
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reader, tinkerbell29 +, writes (15 October 2007):
 hi hun,
i too am in a relationship with a man who is in the armed forces. At the moment he is away for training purposes but he will be going abroad for a tour in the next couple of months. I can understand how you are feeling..scared, worried, the list just goes on. Myself I am feeling all the same feelings but you have to think positive, I know it's hard to do at this time but you must show him your support.After all you knew he would eventually go on tour overseas it is part of his job. Talk to him and tell him how you are feeling because I can promise you he will be feeling the same as you.Just concentrate on the good times you can share when he returns and in the meantime spend all the time you can with him and cherish it.You might find it easier if you get in contact with the girlfriends of his friends in the force, it will help you to deal with it if you talk to people in the same situation. I hope everything works out for you. take care xx
p.s you can get blueys from the camps family office or the post office. They are just simply a blue letter that folds into an envelope, you will need them to write to him when he is away and best of all you can send as many as you like because the postage is free!!!
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reader, little miss helpful +, writes (19 September 2007):
 they are drugs dont do them!!!!!!!!!my b/f is in the forces aswell and goes away alot i know how your feeling. it is hard the first couple of times but the times you finnaly do get contact you talk loads loland its true what they say absense does make the heart grow founder. all you have to do is think about the great times your going to have when hes back home holding you in his arms. i think my relationship is better then all the othersi used to see all the time. you appriciate them more when they go away and if things work out you can move to his base. .
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reader, rcn  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 Your feelings are natural. I suggest being part of or even starting a support group. Taking part with other women who share the same worries and fear can help you quite a bit. That way all of you will be strong for one another, which will build your strength too. Take care.
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