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female
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30-35,
*roubledgurl
writes:Ok. .right now am doing just great with my bf but am still not ok. .because my bf is recieving messages and calls from different girls. .when i checked his inbox last i saw lots of messages from girls nd even the ones he sent to them. .its so confusing to me because he loves and care about me so much. .even when i tried confronting him. .he made it clear to me that he is not dating any other giri,and that he loves me,so who are those girls that are sending those messages to him. .am just so confuse with evrything..pls help me
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reader, Troubledgurl +, writes (11 April 2010):
Troubledgurl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYa. .i know i should give him some privacy and apologise for that but his responses to them is not encouraging at all
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): First of all, what are you doing checking his phone? This raises an immediate trust issue flag in my head. I think there are other issues here at hand which you need to confront.
But to answer your question, some men just have a lot of female friends. Maybe he's a good listener, sensitive, I dunno. When these girls mail him are the messages innocent or flirtatious? How about his responses? Obviously, if he's turning into Casanova with his responses this is unacceptable. But if the messages are innocent, then don't worry too much.
I can kind of understand your situation; I also have a lot of female friends. It used to phase my girlfriend a bit when another girl would randomly call me and want to go out for coffee, but after we talked about it and she met my friends she became more comfortable.
My best advice is just to be open about your feelings with your boyfriend. Let him know you think it's strange, but don't let it come across as making any accusations. Make an effort to learn a little bit about his friends and maybe things will get better.
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