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writes: hi there need some help!! i had a big arugement with my bf last over him texting another girl but the more we argued the more i found out. i found out that there wasnt just 1 girl he was texting but 3. he told me they were just friends of his which i thik may be true but he met them on a chat room. he said that he has never met them but i had seen the texts and what they had said didnt sound like they hadnt met. i asked why he had texts these girls and he said that he had been texting them for over 2years then told me he only started texting them a few months back. when i asked again why he had been texting them he said he wanted to meet new friends but i always ask him to come out with me n my friends he always says no. or when i ask him to go out just the 2 of us he says no. so i asked him why he swapped numbers with them instead of just texting them on this chat room he said he didnt know then changed it to that they only had a short time to talk. when i looked into this chat room it turned out that the chat room he had been on u get all the time you want but in another room you only get 10mins and when i asked him about this and asked if he had been on this certain room he couldnt answer me. i want to believe him but things dont add up. now he doesnt want to talk about it but i need answers !
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006): Hi,
I understand exaclty where your coming from. My boyfriend uses chat rooms a lot and I thought that was fine until I noticed that the people he chats with are all girls - and with names like bustyblonde and so on. when I quizzed him about this he said that he gets on better with girls and to stop trying to control him. I then found out that he had set up chat accounts saying that he was single and have witnessed him "talking dirty" to some girls. After I caught him he said that all blokes to this and there is nothing wrong with it as he's not physically cheating on me. But to me this is just as bad and he just says that I am being silly and to stop trying to change him.
Im sure that I am not the only person to think that you shouldnt be doing this in a relationship but he can be so manipulating that he can convince me that I am just being silly.
So really I don't know what to think.
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reader, andrea23 +, writes (7 October 2006):
 personally i think he's playing away from home because if they are just friends why didnt he tell you about them & why did he keep changing his story & you say the texts made out that they have met. could you picture if that was you texting other boys, he'd be fuming. i think you should sit him down & demand him to tell you what the score is & then that way you can decide what you wanna do.
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