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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. At first it was going good and then it got shakey...long story short we became homeless. After we got out of the situation we moved in to a place he started being self centered about himself and doesn't put any effort in our sexual life... Meaning it's all him and no me every time. I really try my hardest to make him happy and to never ask him for anything; because I understand he works ALOT, but I feel emotional distress for the lack of any contact between us other than focusing on him. What should I do? And how can I fix my relationship?
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reader, jls022  +, writes (11 June 2015):
Your issue is outlined in your last paragraph - you never ask him for anything. You have the right to have your needs met in your relationship, so start showing and telling him what you want. If he's too tired or stressed to meet your needs, then he shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. So the next time he starts to make the moves on you, playfully ask him what he's going to do to make it worth your while ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2015): I would bet my left arm he is using porn. Although
Men deny it porn makes them pathetic lovers and they become
Totally focussed on their own pleasure . Not to mention also mysogynistic!
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