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female
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36-40,
*mesagan
writes:My boyfriend has had a checkered past with other women. He went through a phase of lots and lots of flings. Had several going at once. One of them was a married woman who stays in contact with him. Should I be worried? Thanks!!
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Yes. You should be very worried. Why does this make you any different from the women before? How do you not know that he won't do the same to you?This is a sign of someone who is not willing to commit, they like their fun. And if he can do it to other people, then he can do it to you. Get out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2011): He's bad news. He will mess you about leaving you crushed. Shut him all the way down without explanation. Just vanish. He's a major player and could give a crap about hurting women. Run like hell away from him. the biggest red flag is that he had an affair with a married woman and he's still talking to her. That's disgusting and it shows that he's an idiot without morals. The lad is major big time trouble. Do away with the greasy gutter rat. He's cheat meat, nothing more.
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Yes, you could be worried because he is obviously not morally cautious. You don't need to be viewing his past as what it means to your relationship, as much as what it means about him- and then what what a relationship with him means for you.
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reader, lisahorn_1  +, writes (11 March 2011):
If he had no strings attached flings in the past, it's one thing, but if he was dating someone at the time, and cheating on her to have these flings, I would certainly be worried. Been there, done that-they don't change.
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