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*ipsytips
writes:What should i do? My boyfriend is always sitting at the bar drinking, like everytime i talk to him .. im like ' Hey what are you doing ? ' , and he is always like at the bar .. or having drinks with my friends .. and he already got in trouble from the law about drinking and driving .. so he can't come into canada .. and so i always go there too see him, and when ever i see him he is always drinking .. and sometimes i think it is something i did ? which i don't know what i did .. and i kinda have an urge that he isn't taking it seriously about our relationship .. even though he acts it and stuff .. just sometimes he seems like he isn't .. and i dun't wanna say anything too him , cause i don't want to get him mad or anything .. maybe i am just over reacting a bit too much, but i don't know what do about it.. i know i shouldn't be scared to talk too him about it .. but what if its all in my head ? I just want him to stop drinking so much, it kinda worries me. so what should i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lipsytips +, writes (26 September 2011):
Lipsytips is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 Maybe he has a drinking problem? If he is at the bar every single day and it is all he does is drink then yes you do have the right to worry about him. Drinking alcohol can be damaging and it may end up ruining his life. Tell him your worries and concerns. Tell him you are worried that all he does is drink alcohol and tell him how you feel. Don't be scared. It sounds to me like you are not getting anything out of this relationship. Therefore talk to him, tell him how you feel and ask him to try and do more things as a couple that doesn't involve alcohol. You need to feel loved and appreciated in a relationship and I don't think your needs are getting met. It sounds like he doesn't even seem to bother with the relationship and you are the one making all the effort. Its time to stop and not let him walk all over you. Tell him how you feel.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 You can start by steering clear of him.....
Then, you can finish by steering clear of him....
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2011): Leave now before u have a child w him.
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reader, N91  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 You have no other choice than to tell him, if there's something in your relationship that you're worried about and you want it to be resolved, he can't change his ways if you don't share with him your concerns.
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