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writes:hi everyone!I have quite a high sex drive, and i like to experiment. But my partner prefers to stick to missionary and not really change? He doesnt like a bj either or anything like that?This isnt really a problem i know you like what you like, and our sex life is good i enjoy it! But it would be nice to try some different things and spice it up now and again?(For example i like role play and he likes the look at first but he just seems to want to get in and finish)?He has offered to try some things but i know hes not really up for it, so it kinda takes away the idea?Im just wondering if anyone (especially guys) think i should let it be or try something else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2013): OP I have a feeling he'd be perfectly willing to do things if you ask him for specific things. Like print out a sex positions chart and ask him to try a few of them, tick them all off the list.
Or specifically ask him to use a vibe on you, or maybe try anal. You know? Maybe he doesn't seem so keen because he just doesn't really know what to suggest.
Like the others said, talk to him. But have a few solid ideas of things you'd like to try. Not just "roleplay". What type? Nurse, has he injured his penis and you're nursing him? You know what I mean?
Look up some specific things you'd like to try and he'll probably be more than willing to do them.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 April 2013):
I think you need to have a talk with him, and explain that you do have a high sex drive, and would like to experiment more. If he offers (as he had), take him at his word and experiment. You may find that he's very shy and just needs you to initiate things for him.
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (3 April 2013):
You don't mention whether or not you've even talked seriously with him about your dissatisfaction. If you haven't, that's the best place to start.
What you should try is to initiate some of the things you want to try as well.
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