How to get over a COLOSSAL breakup?
Q. I really need advice on how to get over a COLOSSAL breakup. I am 21 years old, and I just broke up with my fiancee who I have been dating for 8 years. We started dating in high school, and our relationship all through high school and college was ...
A. 8 March 2010: You did the right thing. Even if it doesn't feel right. More than likely it doesn't feel right because now you are alone. For the past 8 years of your life, you've had a certain part of it figured out(your mate). But now that is gone and your single ... (read in full...)
I told him I wanted a divorce because of his porn use, and he refused. What can I do?
Q. I need some advice on my marriage. This month i will be married for 4years, we have 2 children 2 1/2 and 10 years. I have caught my husband plenty of times where he will sit and watch porn on the internet and also masturbate to it and every now and ...
A. 4 March 2010: To be completely honest, it starts with him. Porn and masturbation is very very addicting. It forms a habit that relates the males sexual and mental pleasure to what he sees on the screen. This does not repeat itself in real life. And the real life ... (read in full...)
2 years into the relationship, he still calls me by his ex's name!
Q. my boyfriend was with a girl for 7yrs,and they split up. a year after splitting up from his ex,he met me. we've been together for over a year now. in the early stages he called me by his ex's name,which i didn't like but i understood,maybe it was ...
A. 10 April 2009: 7 years is a long time and emotionally for men, when we let a girl in, they are in. In all honesty its probably a good thing, he is allowing himself to go back to those feelings he had when he was with her, which were probably good ones. He is ... (read in full...)
Why am I attracted to girls who are similar to my first love?
Q. It's interesting that ever since I broke off from my first love a year ago, every girl I was attracted to since shared some similar features to her -- slim, similar figure; tall height; brunette hair -- and a few times, even in shy personality. ...
A. 10 April 2009: I do the same thing my friend and trust me its completely normal. I tend to be attracted to the same type of girls, shy and quiet.... (read in full...)
Why is he suddenly being so difficult?
Q. I have been with my new bf for a few months now things were going really well up until he went out on his mates stag weekend since he has come back he has barely seen me. I have hardly had any texts off him and when i do they are quite moody, w...
A. 10 April 2009: Guys get like that sometimes, especially after a night out with the fellas. Explain to him(calmly) how you are feeling and see where that takes you. It should be taken well.......If not then decide on other options... (read in full...)
I hate myself for cheating, but I cannot seem to stop! I need to understand why I am doing this...
Q. Ok, i know people will have little sympathy for me but I cannot stay faithful. My parents died when I was 3 and I was raised by my aunt and uncle who never really had much time for me. They were'nt affectionate and in some ways seemed to resent...
A. 11 July 2008: More than likely your cheating stems from life long feeling of emotional detactment. Coming from a family that "you say" didnt really want you, and being involved in an abusive relationship can do that. Atleast you are conflicted in your ... (read in full...)
Guys, how do you feel about women's bodies after giving birth?
Q. I'm afraid my husband won'd find me attractive anymore after pregnancy. He tries to assure me that since I am lean, I will get my body back, but I know it will irretreivably change and will no longer look like the girls in the magazines. He wants ...
A. 11 July 2008: This sounds more like your insecurity rather than his concern. If he hasnt given you any signs in the past about his concern for your appearance pre/post baby, then it more than likely wont become issue.... (read in full...)
My ex has started to drink occasionally, I just do not want this to become a habit or the only way she can feel happy!
Q. Lets see where do I begin....My X and I have had a good relationship. She is 21 and I am 26. Communication was always somewhat of an issue because I always felt like she was timid about expressing concerns to me. We had our fights and disputes but ...
A. 10 July 2008: True the legal age thing could also be the case. The only thing is that she has an issue with low self esteem. She tends to analyze things to much and thus talk herself out of sometimes being herself. She states that the drinking allows her to be ... (read in full...)
I was very controlling but not anymore, how can I prove to my ex that I've changed?
Q. ok everyone look I just got out of a 3 year relationship it was my fault I was a very controlling person I'm not any more but still can anyone just give me any tips how to not be so controlling so I can add to what Ive already learned? if any one ...
A. 10 July 2008: Dude I was in the same boat as you....My gf for so long felt I was the controlling force in our relationship. Sometimes us guys have a had time understanding how women feel, and at the same time they(females) have a hard time explaining it to us. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to use my friend to get information from the boy I like?
Q. I'm not sure about this. I was wondering if it was wrong to use my friend to get information from the boy I like. She knows I like him, and that i have a hard time talking to him. So i ask her to ask him the questions I want to know and she does...
A. 10 July 2008: Short and simple answer is ....No its not wrong, as long as your friend knows your true motive. Its ok to be shy at first, although if you like him im pretty sure at some point you may have to talk to him for yourself.... (read in full...)
We used a condom during sex, but my period is late, could I possibly be pregnant?
Q. okay, three weeks ago, i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of some time. we used a condom, and he pulled out before he ejaculated. i was supposed to start my period yesterday and.. i didn't. today: nothing either. i'm very worried. i'm 15,...
A. 10 July 2008: This is something that normally happens the first time you have sex, people are afraid that they are pregnant at the first sign of something strange. In all honesty you could be pregnant and you couldnt be. The only way to know is if you take a ... (read in full...)
My ex has started to drink occasionally, I just do not want this to become a habit or the only way she can feel happy!
Q. Lets see where do I begin....My X and I have had a good relationship. She is 21 and I am 26. Communication was always somewhat of an issue because I always felt like she was timid about expressing concerns to me. We had our fights and disputes but ...
A. 10 July 2008: I do understand that people go through certain phases in there life and this may not be a recurring trend. True, there is soooo much to do that dont involve drinking. I just wouldnt want drinking to become something that she becomes dependant on to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend constantly badgers me, I've tried to get him to stop, I love him, but it's too much, please help me or I'm leaving him??
Q. He is always tell me what am i doing wrong and it is really become a problem everyday it's something like i forgot to say something or i dont pay attention to him and listen to what he got to say it's always something but the funny part about it i ...
A. 10 July 2008: Funny that my gf says the same thing about me...Im about 5 years older than my gf. We have had our ups and downs but always seems to want to work it out in the end. We(men) often have difficulties expressing need and want when it comes to women. We ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about him though I know he has a girlfriend, help!
Q. Hey, there's this boy i met recently at work and i really like him. We flirt all the time but he has a girlfriend and i don't won't to try to split them up but i can't stop thinking about im and i don't know what to do ... HELP!!!...
A. 10 July 2008: There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone who is in a relationship...RESPECT...the bottom line is him having a gf "should" stop him from flirting, and you knowing this should A: try and remind him of that and... B: keep your though... (read in full...)
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