A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need some help. Lately my boyfriend has been buying porn and lieing to me about it. It wasn't a problem before because he would watch porn occasionally and we would still have really great sex! Now, He watches porn and we have sex maybe once or twice a week.. and half the time he can't stay hard, and has a problem reaching an orgasm. I've tried looking at his porn to see what i can do to spice things up.. But it's all girls with HUGE breasts masturbating. All his porn i've noticed is that. The problem with that is I'm a petite red head. my breats are a B cup.. all his porn girls are DD and bigger.He also sometimes goes on Live Webcam sites and talks to the girls.. Which I do not approve of. I don't have a problem with porn, let me say that..Just with the cam girls. I don't mind if he masturabates once in a while. How can I talk to him about this without seeming like I'm attacking him? He just spent $70 on porn in one day! I'm not supposed to know about his spending habit, and I've asked him when is the last time he has watched porn. He tells me not in a long time. When clearly, his purchase history on this cam girl site shows within the past 5 days. What can I do about this? His lies are really beginning to hurt this relationship.. and the crappy sex resulting from his masturbation daily are taking it's toll... Please some advice from the males out there! why throw away a perfectly good, sexy girl, to beat your meat to porn?
View related questions:
breasts, orgasm, petite, porn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, RayBones  +, writes (19 January 2011):
 I think you should find out how committed to the relationship he is.
When I was in a relationship where porn was as much or more interesting than the girl it was because I was over the relationship but couldn't find a good way out because I was so young and inexperienced with being a decent person.
As usual the key is communication. Make sure you let him know how it makes you feel without attacking it or him. And try to find out if he wants to stay with you. Nothing wrong with porn, but I agree that cam girls is too far, you have the right to be against that.
|
