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writes:my boyfriends old friends who are married and single are having a get together. I went to a Birthday Party last year and met them.My boyfriend said they are trying to get it together, I felt by the words he was using that he was not going to ask me to go.I said am I invited he said I dont know,its reall just the married couples and the singles one no dates.I got upset and felt bad, I would include him. If it was just a guy thing or one of the ladies coming through town, I could not care but this is a get together on a Sat that I am not asked too.He said I should not feel this way and I said what if the tables were turn he said i would not ask you if i was invited and if you went without me its no big dealAm I making a big deal of this Reply to this Question
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reader, To Old for This +, writes (25 July 2009):
To Old for This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your imput. I do have all the trust in the world and he is not the player type.
Rude maybe, or maybe selfish of my feelings.
I did ask him how he would feel if it was the other way around, he said I would not ask if I was going and if you did not ask I would not think anything of it:)
We all get hurt in relationship, I guess my problem is I think of him before I do things. I have had many chances of going without him somewhere, I never thought twice unless it was an all girl thing. I want him with me alone or with my old friends
hmmm we all have different dont we. Either way I will sit back not bring it up and when it comes up in Sept or Oct when it is. I deal with it then??? it hurts though
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): Well, I might be wrong, but if it's only singles and married people, why is he going? He is neither of them. I wouldn't really worry about him cheating or anything like that, if that's going through your head. The thing that would bug me is the fact that he's being a little rude, especially saying it's only married and singles, if he's going to play that single card, why can't you go and act single like he is? :/
I don't really think that you're making a big deal, if it was the other way around I bet you're boyfriend would think differently.
Take care.
~Sam.
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