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writes:ok so i had a job working at a coffee shop this guy use to come in every weekend and get coffee we always chatted very nice and good looking well than one day he asked me if i wanted to come work for him at a hotel and do like front dest work....i said sure the pay was better and i was guarnteed 40hrs a week so i came in and got hired on the spot....then he started hitting on me mind you he has beautiful girlfriend i met that he has been with for 3yrs he told me all he wants is sex from me becuase he finds me very attractive him being my boss i don't think its such a good idea...i mean it would be easy since we work at a hotel and no one would know because we act professional at work all the time we joke and laugh but he does that with everyone....and tomorrow night i work with him at night just me and him and he already told me what he wants to do.....im a little nervous what should i do???? help
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe robbed two different people she knew he was going to get a lot of time just didn't think it would be that long and she thinks he is going to kill himself while he is in prison now...
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 No no no, not a nice man. Don't sleep with him. Do exactly as Emilyanswers says and keep a diary of all the times he has come on to you so you can take him to the industrial tribunal when it all goes wrong. You are obviously a pretty young girl and don't need to sleep with this sleeze just because he's your boss. Do keep notes and times etc because he is bound to find some reason for getting rid of you when you turn him down and you will need this. Men who do this are deplorable. He is obviously nice looking and everything else but he has a girlfriend and you wouldn't want to hurt her by doing this would you and you certainly shouldn't have to sleep with a guy just to keep your job. Tell him to get lost.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 November 2008):
Sweetheart this guy is a creep.
He spotted you in a cafe and offered you a job - he didn't hire you for your amazing phone manner and typing speed.
Once he's had sex with you he'll be looking for your replacement.
Don't do it and keep a diary of everything he says to you that is not professional. If he tries to sack you then sue his face off.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, mustaine6 +, writes (5 November 2008):
DON'T!!!Don't lower yourself like that. your worth more than providing some jerk with his sex needs.trust me, you do not want to do this.
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