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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of nearly 2years. I need advice on some insecurity issues. We both have issues hes just as worse as i am that it's kind of rubbed off on me. I cant stand watching hip hop music videos because i get uncomfortable that he might be watching the girls dancing i know it sounds silly but i really feel uncomfortable about it. I need advice asap please Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206  +, writes (28 April 2007):
 Okay... my advice. There's not enough room in any relationship for two people who are insecure. They inevitably fall apart for truly stupid reasons and it would be a shame to see that happen to you. When you're watching a video you're watching what happens on the screen, he is watching the girls dancing but don't assume that means he's comparing them to you and even if he is so what? If he didn't want to be with you he sure as heck wouldn't be. Try not to let the insecurity issue break you!
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