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writes:My boyfriend and I have quite an adverterous sex life where we like to try lots of new things . Lately we've been doing a lot of anal play and my boyfriend feels he would really get turned having me f___ him with a strap on dildo. I have no problem with this and think it would be quite hot, however I was just wondering if there are any ladies out there (and maybe some men too!) who can give me some advice as to how to do this, any tips, things I should do, don't do, what should I expect etc. We've already done a lto of ass play with fingers and small but plugs as well so the stretching might not be too much of a problem. Just some advice really. Thanks! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2015): did you give it a go?
as for tips, lube lube lube,
get a vibrating one, feels so much better
get a longer one, easer for u to use, about 7 inch, the hard part is finding one that is not too fat.
when he wants to cum you might need to give him a reach around to make him cum, even if he is already having multiple dry orgasms, I know I need a bit more to get me there.
if he gos soft when you are doing it it dose not mean that he is not enjoying it, if he likes it just keep on going.
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reader, RitzaD.  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Hi, well to start, ignore doe44, no one is here to judge. Well a
strap-on-dildo will do the job, since you've gotten enough practice already, but start off with a small dildo, u don't want to go all huge, then maybe u can work ur way up I suppose. Im sure u know about using enough lube! Try searching on this site for similar questions, there might be more advice since u haven't gotten much yet. And don't worry of what others think, its ur sexlife and its whatever floats ur boat, u don't need a diamond ring to have him prove his love for you, heck being comfortable enough with anal play says a lot from him. And ur no prostitute!!!
Enjoy!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): This is so normal my boyfriend likes the same thing. . it is really hot. and they like it because for a man there g spot is in there anus, trust me he will really love it when you do it! HAVE FUN!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): I would not advise using a dildo anally, unless it has a flared out base. Dildo's can easily get lost in the rectum and then you would need doctor to get it out. Plus it if it gets into the bowel you'll have lots more problems.I'd stick to butt plugs.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dildo#Safety_and_health
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reader, doe44 +, writes (23 August 2008):
You sound like an unpaid prostitute. For me to do so much to please a partner I want to see the rock in my finger first. since that you are so willing and you have no bounderies why doesn't he chose a d for you. By the time a good man will chose you, you will be such damage good.
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