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writes:My fiance snogged his bf's gf over two years ago, at that time i was on antidepressants from having my 3rd ectopic pregnancy.I dont know if i trust him or not, as far as i know it hasnt happened since, but he did admit to me that he was tempted to have sex with her.I would not have known all of this apart from the fact she showed up at my door step at 10.30 at night and told me all of this.He told me his excuse was that he was very drunk, whos to say that next time he will not stop himself from having sex with someone.He wants to get married, but i'm in two minds, i just dont know what to do. please give me your thoughts about my situation ty x
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reader, kutykitty +, writes (15 September 2007):
No he does not go out alot and drink, or to parties, and yes he was in a relationship with me at the time. I had my 3rd ectopic pregnancy (with him) and i suffered from sever depression because of this.
He said at the time it was his way of coping with loosing another baby. (drinking that is)
and only now goes out about 1-2 times a month.
We have been together 6 years now and i do love him, but you cant live in a relationship without trust. Perhaps the trust will come back. i still dont know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): While he was in a relationship with you, he kissed his best friend's girlfriend & was temped to have sex with her? Does he go out to pubs & parties & drink a lot? I would not trust this guy. Why don't you just cut it off & find someone else? He has very low character if he would do that to his best friend & to you. And if he's a big drinker, that is a definite NO. You can never trust a drunk.
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reader, BlueEyedAngel  +, writes (13 September 2007):
 if you have the slightest doubt dont do it cause marriage is a sacred thing. i had doubts on my 1st marriage but done it anyway and it ended up in divorce. he was a drunk to and would always say i didnt do nothing, very hard to trust him. if you have any doubts sweetie DONT do it
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