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writes:Hi! Well I was just wondering to how many other women this happens to and what should I do to make things better or not be horrible girlfriend.. The problem, my bf of 2 years says his stressing and he needs to take a few days silence break, he runs his own business. I know for a fact that this time of the year, he normally his with drawn and hides in his bubble. 4 years ago he got married on the 28th of feb. His wife cheated on him and left after a 2 year marrage period. I told him that I'm here when he needs me and I love him a lot.. What would be the best thing to do well he is in his bubble? Thanx..
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi! Thank you very much.. I'm glad I have not said the wrong.. I know or rather feel that is not over her, I know why, and I'm just trying to be supportive where I can. My sister has the same story with her soon to be husband, so it should be a normal thing that happens.. "They normally hurt the ones closes to them" thanks guys!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2010): I also think you are doing the best thing already by simply letting him know you will be there for him, and letting him have his peace and quiet. I personally think that is the best way to be around others, letting them be alone until they decide themselves that they want contact, and letting them keep things to themselves until they are ready to talk. Of course, I do not always manage to live by this rule, but I try to. Try to not let it bother you and bring you down, you know already that it's not something you did wrong, and that soon he will feel better again. So be the bright part of his life, the light that cheers him up when he needs it and is there to warm him. Let him be alone until he comes back to you on his own.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 February 2010):
You've already done the right thing. You've told him you're there, and that's the best thing you can do. But bear this in mind - if he is still stressing over this break up while he's with you, then maybe he's not over her.
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